You can take a horse to water… but you cannot make it drink.
Why do people seem to resist inner change, even when they know or suspect the original cause and have done some work on themselves?
Occasionally, while working with a pioneer, while they are finding and releasing withdrawn energy, due to past hurt, trauma or survival, and are experiencing more and more of their life force excellence, they reach a holding pattern that they cannot seem to shift.
It sounds something like, “I am holding onto (fear, anger, anxiety, lack of trust, etc.)…. What negative feelings do you hold onto?One of the most powerful parts of the RAPSI approach is to identify a person’s Unconscious Equation or Equations.
This is something we teach to the client and to licensed practitioners whom we have trained. It is featured in our book, The Missing Peace, the advanced seeker’s guide to wholeness, on the Kindle and in Paperback from me/us.The complete equation reveals a bottom-line statement, examples: I hold onto fear… in order to stay safeI hold onto anger… in order to feel strongI hold onto anxiety…in order to stay a victim and receive helpI hold onto a lack of trust…in order to keep people distant and not get hurt againThe full equation is (The holding)(-) (The Positive Intention)(+) = (Perceived positive results)(+) (Negative Consequences)(-)Mine was ‘I hold onto secrecy in order make me seem more discerning and likable’.
This is the illogical logic of the right brain because if you are secretive, people don’t trust you. “If you want to drink deeply and enjoy the banquet of life, you have first to let go of the weevilly tack (a nautical term) that has kept you alive.” Join the banqueting table, I did.
“I knew that I kept people at a distance, including you, but I couldn’t help it, it was a lifelong habit. You helped me find deep trust and belief in myself. My children hugged me, I cried, and the Board began to trust me too”
P.S. Group Chairman Despite all you have achieved in Business and Life, and however much personal development you have undertaken, If there is still a negative thought, feeling, or pattern that haunts you, private message me or email me with your phone number at theQuantumJockey@gmail.com and let’s talk.